Moon Conjunct Neptune: The Clairvoyant

As a lover and educator of planet Neptune, there is nothing I love more than to talk about Neptune's influence on the occult arts. There is no denying Neptune's role in manifesting celestial phenomenon. However, there is one placement in particular that has astounding psychic potential, and that is Moon in conjunction with planet Neptune. This fragile placement can only truly be mastered once it is fully understood. Let's explore!

La Lune ⥏

The Moon, ruling the sign of cancer, is one of the most important planets in regards to spirituality. Only through the Moon can we access the super conscious realm. We are often granted access to this realm through sleep and astral projection. However, those with well developed Pineal Glands can access the super conscious realms at any point in time. Though the sign placement of the Moon is fairly important in determining the archetype of psychic ability one may experience, the house placement is of utmost importance. Water moon's (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio) will have an easier time navigating through the super conscious realm. However, water houses (4th, 8th, and 12th) will serve as a channel to guide the Moon through the realm of conscious activity. 

Neptune ⥺

Neptune, the ruling planet of Pisces, also plays a large role in psychic ability. Neptune rules the collective unconscious, and serves as a channel between the spirit world and earth. Neptune in water sign placements can feel quite at ease and comfortable with the unknown. However, Neptune in the water houses may feel especially familiar with the spirit world and the occult. 

The Divine Connection ⤘⧪

Though Neptune and the Moon are already powerful sources on their own, they create a dynamic duo once they come together. In particularly when they are conjoined. The conjunction is the most powerful of psychic energies. Think of Neptune as being one person only to discover that the Moon is its conjoined twin. Now everything Neptune consumes, the moon consumes as well. They are no longer separate entities. They have become one, they are conjoined. They always say that two heads are better than one, and that is exactly the case when the Moon is in conjunction with Neptune. Now, conjunctions are often known to be 5 degrees (or less). But when a planet is in conjunction with a Luminary (Sun, Moon, or Ascendant), a wider orb (up to 10 degrees) is allowed. 

So, what happens to the a person when their moon is in conjunction with Neptune?: 

Boundless Empathy: And I'm not talking about the "Yeah, I get what you mean" kind of empathy. Though nothing is wrong with this form of empathy to begin with. Neptunian empathy is a lot more extroverted. Neptunian empathy is not just projected, it is felt through every inch of the body. Neptunian empathy is "I feel what you feel" and the native is genuinely experiencing every emotion they may come across as if it were their own.  The Moon only intensifies this experience. The Moon causes the native to nurture the channel in which they have picked up the energy from. So with the conjunction, we find a person who seeks to make active attempts to end the suffering of others in order to save themselves. 

Psychic Vulnerability: The moon in conjunction with Neptune causes a psychic vulnerability that is potentially dangerous to the native. If the native has the ability to astral project, the will find that negative astral entities will gravitate towards them and attempt to steal their energy. This is especially likely if the conjunction takes place in the 8th or 12th house. If the conjunction takes place in the 4th house, the native will experience psychic vampirism throughout the human experience. It ma feel as if the native is a target/scapegoat for the human race as they will be seen as an easy target by many. It is especially important for those with Moon/Neptune in 4th house to practice boundary setting starting from a young age. 

Premonitions/Foresight: Moon/Neptune can pick up on the thoughts of others quite easily. Moon/Neptune natives also have the ability to see into the near future. This insight is often provided to the native through dreams, symbols, and precognition. It is not unusual for a Moon/Neptune native to think of a person only to get a phone call/text/visit from them seconds later. It is also not unusual for Moon/Neptune natives to foresee upcoming death/trauma. At 8 years old, I predicted my grandmother's death. I sat on my bed playing one day and said to myself "Grandma's gunna go soon." I had no clue what that even meant, but I felt like it was something to be acknowledged. Two weeks later, my grandmother surely passed. Imagine how strange I looked being the only person at the funeral with a smile on my face. I could not help but feel at one with  the universe at that point in time. 

Healing Capabilities: I strongly encourage anyone with a Moon/Neptune influence to give Reiki a chance (whether or not the conjunction is present). Moon/Neptune folks are very gifted with their hands and would be phenomenal at energy healing. Those with Moon in conjunction to Neptune may be born with energy healing capabilities, particularly the act of removing negative energy and mental/psychosomatic illnesses from another's body.  This can often be done by holding the hands of one who is suffering and engaging in a brief meditation, drawing all focus to the body of another. By setting clear intentions and exchanging surges of energy, the Moon/Neptune native can provide temporary comfort and healing for those who are in need. The longer one engages in the act, the longer that the suffering can be relieved. However, psychic shielding is very important when engaging in these practices as the energy of the suffering can easily seek solace within the temple of the Moon/Neptune native. 

Orphanage to the Broken: This is classic Neptune, attracting and taking in the lost and forgotten. The Moon only amplifies the need to nurture and protect those that cling to the native. Moon/Neptune conjunction can cause a native to become a walking orphanage. Everywhere the native travels will lead to encounters with extremely damaged and tortured souls. It is common for Moon/Neptune to come across abuse victims, the mentally ill, drug addicts, codependents, and the emotionally unavailable. Unfortunately, Moon/Neptune natives (regardless if there is a conjunction or not) are often prey to narcissists and sociopaths alike. Due to this, Moon/Neptune natives must learn how to read people. A strong Pluto can serve as a protector to the native.  Otherwise, the native is vulnerable to being used and abused. 

Shielding and Boundary Setting

Those with Moon in conjunction to Neptune must engage in regular cleansing and shielding rituals in order to maintain optimal health. Because Neptune and the Moon are both psychic sponges, the native is susceptible to taking on all the energy that is being carried by others, including illness and dark energy. This psychic absorption can happen at any time, without the natives consent. If the native is not careful, they can easily find themselves contemplating suicide and throwing their life away. Mediation and Chakra balancing are all beneficial to the well being of the Moon/Neptune individual. The creative arts also serve as a wonderful outlet for all the gunk that Moon/Neptune folks pick up on average. Lucky enough, the pure and benevolent intentions of the Moon/Neptune native are often strong enough to serve as a gate of psychic protection for the native. 

The 12th house holds the secrets of the universe. When we fall asleep at night, our mercury clocks out and our Neptune activates. The subconscious mind begins to unravel all the thoughts and experiences of the days from the past and beyond. But similar to being in an awakened state, there is a present and future that also exists within the subconscious. We experience the present and future through the likes of the astral realm. Figured it out yet? That's right! We're about to get into the nitty gritty of astral projection!

Astral Sexy ⥺  

Astral projection is one of the most sought out experiences that mystics and spiritual enthusiasts wish to encounter. The astral realm holds the key to all of your heart's desires, while also serving as an escape from the bitterness of the world. No wonder 12th house play such a huge role! Unfortunately, it's not so easy to visit and leave as you please. Consist and meaningful astral projection takes time and practice. Many experience astral projection on accident. Some, with a more active third eye, can induce sleep paralysis and eventually slip into the astral world without much preparation. Others (most) will need extensive guidance and mental preparation. The first projection is the most frightening experience one can encounter. If I'm being honest, the first month can be pretty disheartening. It takes a while to get used to the sensations experienced in the astral world. They are not of this world, and will require a bit of desensitization to say the least. 

As a Plutonian/Neptunian, I found myself roaming through the astral realm with great ease. Though my 12th house does not consist of any major planets, Black Moon Lilith and Eris point both occupy the space. These two energies alongside my moon's conjunction to Neptune grant me a lot of subconscious ability as well as psychic self control. However, I have paid close attention to my experiences in the astral realm and have made note of a few commonalities in the hopes of helping guide others to a more pleasant and peaceful astral experience. 

The Initial Stages ⧫

Sleep Paralysis: Though I have encountered sleep paralysis time and time again, I cannot help but feel an enormous pool of empathy for those who experience their first episode of paralysis. Imagine waking up to a surrounding that is perceived to be the exact place you fell asleep in. Imagine everything being in order, just as you left it, only to feel as if something is off. You could've sworn you've been awake for at least five minutes. You can see your surroundings so clearly that you could just a paint a picture. But something is missing. Why are you still glued to your bed? You're quite confident that you're awake and ready to start your day. only problem is, you can't move! You can't lift a finger. You are paralyzed. What will happen to your future? How will you make out? Who will take care of you now that you can no longer move a limb on your own? I'm sure these are all thoughts that cross a person's mind during their first episode of paralysis. Well, you can take a breath and relax for a second. In fact, that's one of the very few ways you are going to get out of this mess to begin with. 

Sleep paralysis does not equate to actual paralysis. So please do not panic if ever you find yourself in this situation. The trick is to command your mind to move a specific part of your body. Start with a finger, then maybe a toe. Keep on commanding your body to regain awareness over itself and you are sure to return to your natural state. You will wake up in your bed, possibly wondering if you've just experienced a nightmare. You will touch your surroundings with desperation, questioning your very perception of reality. If you have gotten past this step, congratulations. Welcome to the initiation. 

Roaming: The trick to getting to the next step is relinquishing ALL forms of control over to the unknown. Sounds easier said than done, huh? No doubt about it. However, it's necessary and must be learned. Your mind is going to be exposed to phenomenon it has never encountered before. And without the proper discipline and mental preparation (hey Saturn and Mercury), you will not be psychologically strong enough to move on nor will you be able to process what you've experienced without a mental breakdown waiting on the back burner. The strength of natal mercury and Saturn can determine how quickly (or Slowly) this process will take. A strong natal Saturn (Capricorn; Scorpio; Aquarius/12h; 8h; 9h) followed by a psychically charged mercury (Pisces; Aquarius; Scorpio; Cancer; Taurus;/ 9h; 4h; 8h; 12h) will serve as a crutch throughout this difficult process. Although these natal positions are not necessary in order to induce astral projection. 

After the first couple of times falling into sleep induced paralysis, the experience should become a tad less frightening. Curiosity should rule out fear, promoting further exploration and progress within the mysterious realm. Instead of cowering with fear when you find that you are glued to your bed, with enough surrender and healthy optimism (hey Neptune and Jupiter!), you will be released from the prison of your body. My 12th housers know what I mean by this. How exciting! Now there is a whole world to explore of that is free of systems, greed, and power. What a dream (;

Is This For Real?: When you finally put fear aside and have faith in the universe, you will find that you are no longer stuck in your bed. You are walking around and exploring what seems to be you room. Well, it is your room. You're just not your "self". Get it? Haha. But all jokes aside, you are no longer a physical being at this point. You are a floating, curious spirit with much to learn! Welcome to your playground.

Eventually you will find your way out of your boring house and into astral territory. What does this look like? Well it's different for everyone. Some will immediately begin to soar the outskirts of the heavenly sky. Some will browse their neighborhood and check up on neighbors. Others will remain in the house. This step is an important projection/reflection of the current state of your psyche. Feeling trapped? Don't expect to leave the house anytime soon. Feeling liberated? The astral world is yours! 

What Happens Next?: I truly wish I could provide that answer. But this part is severely up to you. Once you've left the comfort of your corpse, it is up to you to decide how far (or how close) you wish to remain. This is YOUR soul. And only you can determine how far you soar. However, I advise everyone and anyone to tread carefully. This is a world of spirit we are dealing with. And for every yang, there is a yin for purposes of balance. Though the astral realm is beautiful and ethereal in nature, it can be just as frightening as hell itself. I will not get too deep into the negatives in this article, as I would hate to petrify your curious minds. However, I will share that the monsters in your closet cannot compare to some of the dark and malicious entities that exist in the astral realm. Tread carefully.. 

Tell Me About Astral Sex: When you get completely used to the ways of astral projection, it is likely that you will begin to meet other astral bodies. Astral bodies can be anyone and anything. The interaction that goes on in the astral realm is very similar to the conversation that occurs back down on earth. However, it is not always guaranteed that the people you come in contact with will remember speaking with you in the astral realm come morning. If the person you come in contact has little awareness of the likes of the astral realm, it's highly unlikely that they will be able to identify coming in contact with you. There will be moments where there will be an opportunity to engage in astral sex. Astral sex is an amazing experience. In my opinion, it's far better than the real thing. The soul connection that one experiences through astral sex is far out of this world. You are feeling the sexual experience through an emotional, psychic, and spiritual frequency. Positive sexual experience can raise your vibrations while negative sexual experiences can suck you dry. It is important to protect yourself just as you would in the psychical realm. Unfortunately, there are negative and malicious, entities known as succubus and incubus, that prey on vulnerability. They will often disguise themselves as human being and use sex as an opportunity to psychically attack you. It is important to have boundaries in the astral realm, you hear me Neptunians? The last thing you want is to be psychically attacked while you are far away from your source (body). 

Fun Fact: Incubus and succubus often prey on the vulnerable. Those who are socially isolated, those who have recently experienced trauma, those in long distance relationships and many more are capable of falling victim to such entities. Education is key to staying safe and having a good experience. 

This Was Fun, Now How Do I Get Back to My Body?: So you've had lots of fun but you are still attached to your little life on earth. That's fine. Time to get back. No need to worry too much, there is a cord that all spiritual beings are equipped with. The cord is used to keep your psychical and astral self connected for when you project. There is no special process needed to return to your body. When you are ready to wake up, you will naturally return back home. It will feel as if it were all a dream. The cord keeps you safe and allows you to get back free of ease. However, it is best not to wander to far from the body when first learning how to project. Baby steps guarantee the most success and enjoyment of the astral process. 

Stay tuned for part two, where I will talk about lucid dreaming and astral bullies!

Person Centered Astrology

In psychology there is a therapeutic approach, known as person centered psychology, that examines multiple facets of the human psyche in order to better understand a person as a whole. This practice thrives on the theory that a whole is a sum of its parts. As a counselor, I love to incorporate astrology into my practice as the two creative sciences go hand in hand. In astrology, a person's birth chart can be used to better understand the individual as a whole being. Each planet, house, and aspect is a stepping stone to understanding the entirety of a human being. This article will explore how to identify certain facets of a individual through identifying how the planets influence specific actions, thought patterns, and ways of being. Time to put your thinking caps on folks!


Identifying the Sun/5th House within a person: When Solarian/ 5th House energy is being activated, a person will exude an aura of pure confidence and excitement. Solarian energy is warm and affirming. There is a melodramatic nature to this energy, but it is often subtle enough to maintain its innocence. An active Sun can cause a person to suddenly seek leadership in social settings, seek attention/admiration from peers, and can even serve as a source of pure joy, laughter, and entertainment for a duration of the activation. For fire voids, this energy is extremely important and may bring great fortune during transits where personal planets enter the fifth house.

Identifying the Moon/4th House within a person: When Lunarian/4th House energy is being activated. it can feel as if you have to walk on egg shells around this energy. Lunar energy is very moody, consisting of intense highs and intense lows. A person activating Lunarian energy will be very sensitive towards rejection and criticism. There may be a need to seek comfort in food, the arts, or relationships. When a person is activating Lunarian energy, they may appear clingy and some what dependent, especially to those with a strong uranus/jupiter influence. On the other hand, active Lunar energy is quite nurturing. A person under the moon's influence will subconsciously seek to care for and protect others. There is a quiet strength to this energy that is often accompanied by a sense of duty.

Identifying Mercury/3rd house within a person: This energy is one of the easier energies to identify. Mercury/3rd house often carries a scattered and nervous energy. When a person is activating mercury, they are likely to have jittery eyes, a nervous tick, and quickened speech. Mercurial energy is a tad hyperactive and impatient in nature. When this energy is active. this native will find that learning new things becomes easier. The energy will seek variety and mental stimulation above all else, as a person may grow restless and irritable if there isn't a proper outlet for the mutability of the energy.

Identifying Venus/7th (2nd) House within a person: When a person is activating Venus, there is a sensual nature that is hard to resist about this energy. Even if the native is rather basic in appearance, the fragrance of Venus is powerful enough to charm the most picky of suitors. 7th house energy is innocently seductive and playful. A person activating Venus will be socially suave as well as delightful to be around. Venusian energy is courteous as well as polite and refined. You can tell a person is activating their Venus energy when they are mindful of their manners as well as hyper aware of current trends and social norms. Venusians will also have a sore spot for sweets and luxury. The popular phrase "Treat yaself" is totally Venusian.

Identifying Mars/1st House within a person: A person channeling the martian energy will be too hot to handle. They may be mistaken for Plutonian due to their passionate and intense nature. But do not be fooled! This energy stands proudly at the forefront of all action. Pluto is far more behind the scenes. 1st house energy is fearless and confrontational. A person activating their mars energy may be seen as combative and slightly intimidating. This energy, especially in a woman, can influence a person to initiate a new project or build a new foundation for themselves. You know Mars is being activated when a person can confidently venture into the unknown while maintaining the optimism of a small child.

Identifying Uranus/11th House within a person: Can anyone spot Waldo? Of course you can! He's sticking out like a soar thumb. Looks like Waldo didn't get the message that you don't wear tie dye to an all white party. Uranian/11th house cannot ever truly be understood, and knowing this is key to fully understanding the energy. When a person is activating 11th house energy. they will often appear eccentric, introspective, and like a lone wolf. Uranus cannot conform, and its energy can often cause an individual to behave in the most bizarre of ways. When a person is under the influence or Uranus, it is likely for them to voice unpopular opinions at the wrong time and place. It is not uncommon for a person under the influence of Uranus to grow a distaste towards the herd mentality and seek to rebel.

Identifying Pluto/8th House within a person: This energy is fairly easy to spot, but for difficult reasons. Pluto/8th house wants to remain hidden and private as can be, but the intensity that this energy carries is often too heavy to blend in. This energy is easiest to identify when a person is having difficulty with trust, leading to suspicion and paranoia. When a person manipulates others in order to gain emotional control and power, they are channeling Pluto. When a person wants to know everything about others, but reveals nothing in return, they are channeling Pluto. When a person is obsessed over a particular idea, they are channeling Pluto. When a person expresses their anger through explosive, destructive, and sometimes violent means, they are channeling Pluto. However, Pluto is not only about darkness and the underworld. This energy can also be activated when a person uses their deep understanding of the human psyche to help and guide others. When a person discreetly aids others through use of reverse psychology, passionate encouragement, and charismatic influence, you know for sure that Pluto is being activated.

Identifying Saturn/10th House within a person: There is a stereotype that Saturn is often dull and unattractive in nature. This is far from the truth. In fact, when a person activates Saturn/10th house. they take careful care of their persona and seek to polish their reputation as much as possible. Saturn seeks status and recognition, and everyone knows that this kind of acknowledgement is hard to achieve without a squeaky clean record to match. A person who is channeling their Saturn will take pleasure in working hard. They will go above and beyond to gain even a brief pat on the back. You can tell that a person is activating the 10th house when they carry a mental checklist full of goals to be accomplished. A person channeling Saturn will seem competitive on an ambitious level, while seeming to be well put together to the point of spotlessness.

Identifying Jupiter/9th House within a person: The 9th house/Jupiter energy is a tad bit more subtle than the 5th and 1st house, making it a bit more difficult to identify when activated. When the 9th house energy is in use, a person can appear to understand the "bigger picture". What do I mean by this? Well, Jupiter is a philosopher that seeks meaning and understanding in life. When Jupiter is present, everything expands, including understanding! When a person is activating 9th house, they will appear to take life less seriously, as they realize that there is more to life than the superficiality we so easily get caught up in. An activated 9th house will bring a person great luck as they will appear charismatic and borderline irresistible to others. The optimistic nature of Jupiter has a healing energy that draws people, as well as great fortune, very close.

Identifying Chiron/6th House within a person: (Another house that is misunderstood as dull, monotonous, and stagnant in nature.) Chiron/6th house energy is peace on earth. A person channeling this energy will serve as a healer as well as a spiritual leader within their community. This does not mean that a person must go out and receive a certificate in order to indicate their credibility. The 6th house energy is far too simple for such a status. Instead, Chiron is humble and down to earth as it walks on the same terrain as everyone else. The wounded healer has a distinct energy that is hard to miss. A person is often activating their Chiron when they choose to put their problems on hold in exchange for service towards others. When a person says "You first". they are activating their Chiron. Self improvement is a long, and hard job. Not to mention time consuming. But a wounded healer feels that there is always time to come back to the self. Right now, it is more important to help others.

Identifying Neptune/12th House within a person: Being that I specialize in Neptune, I will go a bit more in depth in this section. Neptune/12th house is an ethereal energy that is not of this world. Similar to Uranus, the more you try and define the energy, the farther you grow from coming to an understanding. Neptune is the fallen angel that has been sent to earth to help transcend the spirit of the human race. Neptune/12 house energy can seem as foreign as Uranian energy being that it is often more selfless and shapeless than the other energies. This is not to say that the other planets are tainted or impure, but that Neptune has the capacity to surrender itself to the human experience in a way that may be far too uncomfortable for any other planetary energies to endure. A person is channeling their Neptune when they begin to revolve their life around guiding and healing others. When a person begins to sacrifice their emotional, physical, and psychological well being for the betterment of others, they are channeling Neptune. When a person sacrifices ambition, money, and status for a promising relationship, partnership, or opportunity, they are channeling Neptune. On the other hand, a person can channel 12th house in more destructive of ways as well. When a person engages in an affair, drug/substance abuse, and even criminal activity, they are channeling Neptune. When a person compulsively lies, emotionally manipulates others by playing victim, or finds comfort in being directionless, they are also channeling Neptune.

Note: In order to understand a person as a whole, we must learn to identify the energies of all the planets above, within the person. By understanding the role each planet plays in the personality and development of an individual, we are closer to understanding who the person truly is.

Interactive Learning:

1) Cassandra has an 8 page paper due tomorrow. Yet, it is 8 o'clock, she is surfing the web, 9 tabs are opened and she has not even began to start her essay. Which energy is Cassandra activating?


2) During the early stages of Cassandra's relationship with her boyfriend Mike, she discovered that Mike is afraid of heights. Throughout the course of the relationship, Cassandra has gradually exposed Mike to places of various heights and architectures until he could no longer be consumed by his fear. Which energy did Cassandra activate in order to help Mike get through his fear?


3) Cassandra loves to read romance novels, listen to love songs, and give herself makeovers every weekend. She often dreams of finding a perfect lover as well as what he/she would look, feel, and act like. Cassandra's friend's often refer to her as a love addict. Which energy is Cassandra activating?



















Answer Key: 1) Mercury 2) Pluto 3)Venus

Did you get most to all of these right? Awesome! This means that you understand that a single person is capable of experiencing many different types of planetary energies at various points in time. Congratulations on understanding Person Centered Astrology.

Earth to Neptune: There's a flood down here. 

There's only one thing that can kill a Neptunian spirit quicker than poison itself: reality. Neptunians dedicate so much of their time to trying to escape reality that they may as well turn their efforts into a full time job. This is because Neptune is not meant to come down to earth. Neptune is here to uplift the consciousness of the collective in order to teach true love and true harmony to earth's beings. However, earth's beings can be cruel, and to be fair, Neptune does not understand cruelty. Neptune is far too in the clouds to exert energy on being harsh towards others. But what happens when the cruelness of life on earth is felt so strongly that Neptune is forced to get its head out of the clouds? Quite a few things can occur. Let's explore!

The Rude Awakening:

During this phase, Neptunians are flooded with realities harsh enough to trigger hermit mode. (For those of you who do not know what hermit mode is, it's when a Neptunian isolates themselves from the world through prolonged seclusion. This often involves staying indoors, ignoring text/phone calls/ emails, sleeping all day, taking spontaneous trips/vacation with little to no notice beforehand, etc.) It is not uncommon for Neptunians to become suicidal during this period. There may be an intense emotional response to the sudden epiphanies, and it is likely that some acting out may occur. The best way to help a Neptunian through this period is to help them escape (to a healthy degree). This can be anything from, a convo so good you could get lost in it, to, watching a powerful movie that evokes strong emotion.

Fun Fact: Healthy forms of escape are necessary for the overall well being of a Neptunian. **

The Great Escape: 

I'm sure you all saw this one coming. That's right, it's time to get the fuck out of here. During this phase, Neptunians are planning their next disappearance.. I mean trip, back to outer space. Oh, wait. That's more so a Uranian thing. Oh well, you get my drift. Neptunians may as well be on the passenger side of a Uranian spacecraft anyway. These two would keep each other great company. Turns out that Uranus is a great companion for Neptune to do drugs, philosophize, and make plans to save the human race with. 

Kicked to the Curb: 

Unfortunately, there was only room for one in spacecraft 7. Turns out Uranus was fed up with all of his drugs going missing. Luckily, there's always a cloud to catch Neptune, only inches above the concrete. However, even a cloud is not soft enough to mask the pain of isolation and rejection. Unfortunately, most of society does not support avid drug use, excessive partying, sleeping around, skipping work, and dreaming the day away, all tactics used by heavily Neptunian natives in an attempt to escape reality. This rejection is often powerful enough to sober up the mentality of even the most delusional of Neptunians, often resulting in temporary conformity. 

Fun Fact: Though Neptunians cannot stomach the thought of hurting others, they can often hurt themselves by engaging in unhealthy, toxic, and even risky behaviors. 

Blending In:

At this stage, Neptunians find it difficult and even dangerous to truly act as themselves and attempt to blend in with societal norms. This process is often painful as Neptuninans begin to feel out of touch with their authentic selves.Thus, activating the victim complex. Neptuninas will often manage these disappointing emotions by convincing themselves that they are sacrificing themselves for the greater good. During this stage, Neptunians can find themselves being used and manipulated by others because they are at their most vulnerable. Neptunians can blend in to the point of invisibility, and this very passivity can lead these fishies into some troubled waters. 

Enlightenment: 

With all the let downs and heart break endured throughout the past 4 stages, it is easy for Neptunians to feel that they are too weak for this planet. It's easy to feel alienated, ostracized, victimized, and scapegoated with so much fragility and kindness being taken advantage of. However, this preparation is necessary for graduation day. There will come a day where there is an intuitive understanding of all the obstacles faced beforehand. At this point in time, no words will need to be exchanged. Silent smiles, a brief head nod, and a gentle sprinkle of raw emotion will immerse from the native, indicating that all is well and all is understood. During this phase, a Neptunian will awaken and understand their true purpose. This epiphany shall not harden them, turn them bitter, nor turn them suspicious. This epiphany will soften them, open them even wider, and unleash in them limitless possibilities. Because in reality, though Neptuninans are here to participate in the human experience, they are not meant to be attached to the outcome. Because the 12th house rules endings, and grandmother Neptune can peacefully finish her time on earth knowing that she's lived well.